The Pumping, Squeezing, Dance of Duality

With my spiritual study partner, we are on a chapter in Byron Brown's book Soul Without Shame that is dealing with three modes of engagement.  Yet again the familiar yin-yang scale, the 3 gunas and terms for the same has revealed itself.  I'm in a place where I see the pumping, squeezing and dance of the dualities.  I see how consciousness is intertwined and playing around in it all.  Sometimes the masculine and feminine collide to create chaos, the ebb or flow being great and strong.  Sometimes the masculine and feminine joining is unifying, equalizing, the ebb or flow being just right.  It's a delight to know how, to a certain extent, almost all of it is out of my control.  I see where my primary responsibility lies:  awareness of duality.